I ache for you. No you don’t deserve the things he(she) puts you through but you love him–right? And so I sit on the sidelines watching your facade of happiness knowing you’re dying on the inside. Watching you play out the monotonous cycle of telling yourself, he’s gone do better this time. There’s no sense…
Category: Dating Chronicles
Beware of the Peace Destroyers
You just couldn’t leave well enough alone. You saw me living good working hard to live my best life. But none of that was important to you. You came along spinning tales that were the sweetest temptations. And I fell for it–hook, line and sinker. You captured me. But instead of peace you brought me…
Let Me Teach You How to Love a Queen
There’s only one way to love a queen, and that’s in submission of you. Laying down all your hangups and jump in like hot pursuit. Love her like a wild flower, Blowing in the wind but secured by the soil that gives her life. Bending gracefully as she sways, Soaking the dawn’s due basking in…
Be Careful With My Heart
Never had to convince others to take my love, they gobbled it up faster than I could replenish. Drained every bit, never once considered that I needed love poured back into me. That was that selfish kinda love. But I’m trying to teach you how to love a queen. I don’t wanna make this tit…
Dating Chronicles: Don’t Discount The Frog
I am not a psychiatrist nor do I have a degree in psychology but I have dated a couple of frogs in my lifetime. The experiences alone give me enough credibility to speak on this subject. The topic of love and relationships, especially dating, can sometimes leave a sour taste in your mouth. However, with…
Are You Ready For A Relationship.
“Promise me, O women of Jerusalem, not to awaken love until the time is right.” ~Song of Solomon 8:4 Are you ready for a relationship? We’ve all heard the ageless old cliche when the time is right you’ll know. But how does a person really know when the time is right? One way to know…
Dating in 2018
This has got to be the most bipolar generation of love and relationships. Things that use to be seen as cool and sweet are now interpreted as being boring and thirsty. Women say they want a man to pursue them, then label a guy as thirsty if he seems too interested. Men say they want…
Residues of Yesterdays Pain
I had been a witness to domestic violence and verbal abuse long before I became its victim. It seemed almost normal when it started happening to me. In fact, the first time I called someone for help I was asked, “What did you do to make him mad”. She didn’t know any better. This acceptance…
Journey to Love: He Speaks My Language
And the journey continues… This is the 4th post in my journey to love series. Today’s post is a little advice to anyone who may be interested in pursuing or currently is dating someone who lives “far far away”. My story is that I met this wonderful man and discovered there were over 643 miles…
Dating Chronicles: Dating After Age 40
Dating at any age can be challenging but after age 40 it seems almost catastrophic. If someone had given me an inkling that it would be like this I’d have started a lot sooner. But no, I had this brilliant idea to wait until my kids were adults and I had a career, before I…